How to Be More Classy | The Girls That Get it Get it

Hi ladies! There’s an art to being a memorable, one of a kind type of lady. Women who carry themselves in a high regard always leave an impression on those around them and today, we’re going to discuss just how they do it.

Today we’re discussing 10 simple ways to cultivate being a classy woman.

1. Remember Names

What’s a better way to make a connection with someone during conversation other than remembering/ saying their name? I’ll wait…

There’s no better way.

Tell me, how irritated were you when someone mispronounced, misspelled, or completely forgot your name over and over again? Highly irritated, right?

When you remember someone’s name they feel more respected and more comfortable speaking to you because you’ve made it a point to remember the most important thing you can know about a person when first meeting them: their name! This is key when meeting new people and creating relationships.

2. Show Appreciation

Showing gratitude for anything anyone decides to do for you is very classy and goes a long way.Someone invites you somewhere? Bring a small gift as a thank you.Someone went out of their way to make life easier for you? Write a thank you letter.It’s so rare for someone to do this so when it’s done, the person on the receiving end will remember you because you made them feel seen and valued.

Showing appreciation can be done any way you see fit, just make sure to express that you appreciate those around you.

3. Be an Active Listener

Classy women are able to let others speak and actively listen. They’re able to make others feel heard and valued. I’m not saying you can’t talk or put your two cents in— I’m just saying there’s a time to speak and there’s a time to listen. Simply know the difference. However, it’s more than likely that you should listen first.

4. Be Punctual

Show up on time. Actually, strive to show up earlier than you’re supposed to.

Honestly, whenever I show up earlier than expected I see I’m respected more and sometime I get in my appointments earlier. There’s been multiple times where I was able to skip others because they decided to come right on time and I was simply 10-15 minutes earlier than them.

Everyone’s time is valuable and you don’t want to be the reason someone else isn’t able to do what they need to do because you’re running late. So always strive to be on time.

5. Cultivate an Elegant Style

Women who carry themselves in a more high regard dress classy, chic, and sexy. They make sure to keep up with their hair, skin, physique, and wardrobe.

Classy women each have their own personal style but it all usually consists of the same things— dresses, skirts, blouses, rompers, jumpsuits, heels, statement pieces like purses and shoes. Clothing with ruffles, unique designs, nudes or solid colors are also incorporated to add a little pizzazz.

6. Prioritize Your Health

Classy women prioritize themselves. They take care of their entire being. This includes their physical health: oral hygiene, sexual health as well as an adequate diet and exercise routine.

They also prioritize their mental health. This includes indulging in activities that relaxes the mind like painting, gardening, reading, therapy, spa retreats, writing, etc.

7. Don’t Curse

Classy women, in MY opinion, don’t really curse. I say “don’t really curse” because let’s be honest, it can slip out every once in a while, however, avoid it if possible.

However, it’s aggressive behavior to curse and it’s never really necessary to get your point across. I know it may slip out every now and then but for the most part, cursing is not a part of day to day vocabulary.

8. Be Socially Intelligent

They know how to work a room. They can relate or talk about just about anything. They’re able to hold conversations with just about any cultural or socioeconomic class or gender. Classy women just know how to make their presence known and loved because of their unique and personable insight on just about any topic or their interest in learning about it. Even if you don’t know, actively listening and asking questions is just as classy.

9. Be Confident & Determined

Classy women are very sure of themselves. They know what they want and are determined to see their plans come to pass.

10. Be Respectful

They’re caring, compassionate, kind women who makes sure to treat everyone with respect and dignity.Classy women avoid drama. They do not engage in drama, lying, manipulation, nor are they inconsiderate or aggressive towards others.

They’re genuine, they’re loving, and they are only interested in creating positive, fun, and meaningful connections. They focus on empowering and valuing themselves as well as the people around them.

So those are the top 10 ways to cultivate being a classy woman. Most of you can look back and see that you already hold yourself to these standards but I’m sure there’s something we could improve on, right? This post just pointed out a few simple ways to become more classy naturally.

I hope you enjoyed! Until next time.

Ovy