The Top 12 Values of Successful Feminine Women
Hi ladies! Today we will be discussing the most valuable things successful, feminine women partake in. These core beliefs are the foundation to becoming successful and living a soft life. When you prioritize these 12 things, your life will definitely change for the better. So let’s talk about it.
1. Having a Spiritual Life
Praying about everything will keep you centered, protected, and always guided towards what’s best for you. So pray about everything.
This includes the good things like blessings, opportunities, relationships, health, wealth, love, your desires and aspirations, the small things, the big things etc.
This also includes the not so good things like anxiety, depression, body dysmorphia, toxic personality traits, emotions, uncomfortable relationships and situations, bad habits etc.
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Having a spiritual life will keep you from living a life that’s damaging to your inner being. Yes, you’ll go through tough times but you’ll have an anchor holding you up. You’ll also have moments so fulfilling you’ll see that you become a joyful, peaceful person no matter what you’re going through.
Having a relationship with God will keep you grounded so definitely start praying more! If you need guidance on how to get closer to God then head on over to the Spirituality section.
2. Trusting Yourself
Successful women trust their judgement because if you prayed about it, your answer will lead you towards what’s best for you. Don’t just follow the advice or actions of those around you. Trust that you make great decisions for yourself and know what you need.
Trust your body when you feel uncomfortable around certain people or in certain situations. Trust your intuition. When you believe an opportunity will be good for you, trust that notion and go for it. On the flip side trust yourself and say no to people or situations that won’t serve you or that doesn’t any longer.
Once you’ve become in tune with your higher being, you can trust that you’ll be guided towards success.
“He cuts off every branch of mine that does not produce fruit. He also trims every branch that produces fruit to prepare it to produce even more”
john 15:2
3. Physical, Mental, & Emotional Health
Successful, feminine women value their health. Moving your body, being at peace within, and being emotionally balanced are all components of your life that you should value. These are important because they determine how much you’ll enjoy your life.
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What you decide to consume will determine how long you’ll live and the quality of your life. If you want a long, peaceful, and enjoyable life then you have to always consider choosing what’s best for your health.
4. Taking Breaks From Social Media
Successful women do not sit around gossiping about other people’s lives or spend copious amounts of their energy to focus on the lives of others. They focus on themselves, they focus on getting their life in order.
Taking a hiatus from social media is so helpful because constantly being exposed to what everyone else is doing can be extremely damaging to your mental health. Comparison is a joy killer and social media can be the one stop shop for comparing your life to others.
Taking breaks can help you focus on your life. Instead of putting so much energy into knowing what they’re doing, you can focus on what you’re doing! At the end of the day you have to live with you so make the most out of your life now instead of later. This means learning how to let go of the habit of valuing other people’s lives before your own. Now, it is important to value others just not to the extent of you wasting your time to know what everyone else is up to. So take social media breaks & also mute, unfollow, or block anyone you see fit to keep your peace and elevate.
5. Being Genuine
It’s important to have good intentions. Of course in the world we live in today a lot of people may try to take advantage of that. This is where setting boundaries will come in handy. Here’s a post on how to set boundaries if you have a hard time sticking up for yourself.
Being a genuine person will get you far, especially because God knows your intent. He knows everyone’s true intent and will guide you towards your desires since they’re pure. So don’t use people or move foully. Make sure to be respectful and always leave situations on a good note. Even if you’ll never need a person, see them again, or it wasn’t the best experience knowing them because you represent what a woman of God looks like. That’s rare, so let people be introduced to and experience a genuine person. That alone may be the catalyst to changing them on the inside.
6. Relationships
You can meet your best friend, your husband, your support system, your business partner, your child’s godparents simply from talking to and valuing the people placed in your life right now. However, if you don’t value those people you can forfeit those helpful relationships. God placed you where you are for a reason and fully living out who you are and getting to know those around you can build amazing lifelong relationships that can help you in an area that only they’re able to help you in. It’s extremely important to cherish any relationship you have now but also be open to other relationships God guides you towards.
Know that we are all human and fall short so no one will be perfect but if they are open, willing to change, willing to help you in some way, or make you a better person then that was a godsend relationship. Communicating, setting boundaries, and being intentional in those relationships is your responsibility.
7. Boundaries
You have to value your boundaries because this is the one thing that’ll get you from feeling uncomfortable and drained to feeling empowered and safe. Having boundaries means you value yourself. Setting those boundaries when others overstep means you’re serious about protecting your essence. It shows you value yourself, your thoughts, your body, your life, your very being.
It doesn’t matter how close or unfamiliar you are with a person. Set your boundaries! Set your boundaries with friends, family, acquaintances, coworkers, men you’re dating, people you don’t know etc. As long as it’s done tactfully the other person should receive it and understand where you’re coming from. If they don’t respect your boundaries this can show how they may not even respect themselves and are reciprocating their level of respect for themselves towards you.
8. Loyalty & Integrity
Loyalty is something everyone wants yet everyone isn’t loyal. You can have a lot of disloyal things be done to you but don’t pick up that trait. Staying loyal will one day lead you to other people who value it as well.
Being the same person in front of everyone and behind closed doors is so important because that shows who you really are. Who you really are determines the life God will give you, not the person you may pretend to be in front of others. Being a person of integrity will build your credibility. If people see you’re honest when no ones looking and when everyone’s looking, they know they can trust you. Being a successful woman is all about being trusted by others because once others trust you, you will succeed in making effective connections as well as changing those around you for the better.
9. Self-Care
Successful women always take time to relax and pamper themselves. Self-care will help you show up in the world as the brilliant, authentic woman you were created to be. Not only does self-care help you recharge, but it boosts your self esteem which boosts your confidence and interactions with others. When you look good and feel good, you are ready to take on any and all challenges the day may bring with a lot more spunk and ease.
10. Journaling
Valuing your mental health is so important. Having a journal to spill the beans to or a way to write out you thoughts and desires will help you live a more intentional life. This is key to having a successful life!
People can’t always handle your thoughts or have the solutions to your problems. Not only can you spill the beans in a journal but you can release those built up emotions and thoughts towards a situation without worrying about overwhelming anyone else involved. Writing can also be a part of your process to figure out what’s important to tell others.
You can write out all your thoughts down to the smallest of details then speak about the details that seem more important to say. Get yourself the ultimate spiritual journal that can feed you spiritually.
Another reason successful women value journaling is because if used correctly it is the direct way to get the life you desire. Write about how thankful you are for what you have today and ask for forgiveness for your shortcomings. This will cause your life to make a complete shift once you start journaling with intent.
11. The Future
Make sure to take care of your priorities first and save your money or invest. Splurging on a day to day basis and not having any profit isn’t setting yourself up for success. Invest in yourself! Yes, taking trips, eating out, shopping, and being done up all the time are nice buts it’s temporary happiness that’s wasteful in the long run. All you’ll have to show for it are clothes you don’t wear anymore, memories you’ll slowly forget, and a few pictures. Trust me, I’ve done it.
It’s time to start valuing your future and the longterm benefits more than the temporary happiness.
Don’t completely stop splurging on yourself but take into account what’ll make you happy now versus what’ll make you happy for years.
This last one ties into number two.
12. Yourself
You deserve the best and should expect that from yourself and others. You’re not missing out if you choose yourself. What’s for you will be for you no matter what.
That’s all I have for you all today. I love you and God loves you <3
Ovy
